Crib Vs. the bed

We finally took the plunge and got Bella a big girls bed. No one was happier than her and first night went so well. She only came up once but was caught by daddy working outside her room. We expected her to come into our room at night or wake up early. None of these things happened so we thought how lucky we were. Until next night when Isabella refused to sleep in the bed. She ended up in her crib which we had not had time to take a part yet and this is where she's been sleeping ever since. I ask every night if she wants to sleep there and she absolutely refuse. So now we have both in her room making it a bit small and hoping for the day when she is ready to move.